LOVE Philosophy

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
給我單身朋友們
Love is like a butterfly.
The more you chase it, the more it exludes you.
愛就像一隻蝴蝶。越要追牠，卻越要逃避。
But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.
如果就隨牠自由的飛，牠會在你最不注意時飛向你。
Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
愛使人快樂，卻常傷害人。但只有在你把愛給了一個真正 值得付出的人時，是最珍貴的。
So take your time and choose the best. 所以，花點時間去選擇最好的他 / 她吧。
To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
給我那不是單身的朋友們
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person'.
愛不能使他 / 她成為一個 ' 完美的人 ' 。
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
它卻可以使你找到一個幫你成長的他 /她。
To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
給我玩世不恭的朋友們
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care.
Never talk about feelings if they aren't there.
如果你不在乎，不要 說' 我愛你 ' 。
如果他們不在時，不要討論自已的感受。
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart.
不要 涉足會使他人心碎的生活。
Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.
說 謊時，不要看著眼睛。
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...
最殘忍的事莫過於男人讓女人愛他，卻是逢場作戲。反之亦然 ...
To My Friends Who Are.............MARRIED
給我已婚的朋友們
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry' .
不要老是 說' 這是你的錯' ，何不說 ' ' 對不起 '。
Not 'where are you', but 'I'm right here'.
不要老是問 '你去哪裡了 '，何不 說' 我就在這兒等著你' 。
Not 'how could you', but 'I understand'.
不要老是問 '你怎麼會這麼作？ '，何不 說' 我了解你' 。
Not 'I wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are'.
不要老是 說' 我希望你這麼做' ，何不說 ' 我感謝你的一切 ' 。
To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
給我那已訂婚的朋友們
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
要真正衡量包容心，不是看在一起幾年了，而是要看彼此的敬愛。
To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
給我心碎的朋友們
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
心碎的時間和傷害的深度，完全取決於你自已。
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. 難的是，如何從中學習，而不是從傷痛中爬起。
To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
給我所有天真的朋友們
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent,
要如何戀愛？ --就愛吧。不要欲言又止；要互相協調，不要太固執； share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
要分享，且千萬不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受傷後不要再記恨。
To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
給我積極的朋友們
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else.
看到你所愛的他 / 她和其他人很快樂使你心碎。
But it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
但知道你所愛的他 /她是和你在一起不快樂，令人更加的傷心。
To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS
給我害怕去承認的朋友們
Love hurts when you break up with someone.
當你和他 / 她分手時，愛受到傷害。
It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
當他 / 她和你分手時，更是傷痛。
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
但傷害最深的是你所愛的他 / 她完全無法了解你的感受。
To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
給我那還在等待的朋友們
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.
人生最傷心的事，是你和他 / 她愛情長跑了多年，最後的結局卻不如所望。
If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
如果他 / 她現在讓你覺得不值得付出，那麼一年，甚至十年後，都不會值得付出的。讓他 / 她走吧。

TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......

給我所有的朋友們

My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.